Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back (Without Even Lifting A Finger)

Does it really have to be over just because he says it’s over? Absolutely not! Unfortunately too many good relationships end because women don’t know how to go about winning their man back after a break up. It is actually pretty easy to make your ex boyfriend want you back, but most ladies get it all wrong. They try too hard and they end up feeling worse off in the end when they get rejected … again! So can you really MAKE YOUR EX BOYFRIEND WANT YOU BACK without even lifting a finger? Yes! Here’s how:

Don’t Lift A Finger…

Seriously! Don’t! – Don’t dial his number, don’t text message him, don’t press “send” on the thousand-word-emotion-filled-email you just spent five hours writing. Don’t even go online to update your status to “=’( Heartbroken!! Oh, god! WHY??!!” or anything of the sort. If you want to make your ex boyfriend want you back, you’re gonna have to play smart.

For now what you need to do is IGNORE him. That’s a toughie right? But let me explain why you should do this so that you can be fully committed to the process, okay?

First off, the Book of Human-Nature page one, paragraph 3 states:

“We will always want what we can’t have.”

This is true of so many things and it’s the same with your relationship. Think of it: You’re ex says you can’t have him – You immediately go into panic mode wondering how you’re going to get him to stay. But, don’t worry, this happens to everyone.

The smartest thing that you can do to make your ex boyfriend want you back is to turn the tables on him. If he is under the impression that he can’t have you either, you are automatically more attractive to him and he will want to pursue you. This is basically rule number one and I think the best explanation I have ever seen for this phenomenon is in T.W. Jackson’s book The Magic of Making Up, which is a great read for anyone who is dealing with a break up. Your disinterest will be intriguing to him and he will be reaching out to you to find out what’s going on with you. (Human nature! Oh, yeah!). You can find out more about the specific tactics you can use to make your ex pursue you by reading T.W. Jackson’s book. But, I’ll give you a little sneak preview here. This is a video (one of many helpful videos “T Dub” has made) explaining the first step to getting back an ex, and why it is so VERY important to take a complete (mental and physical!) break from your ex!

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Show Him What He’s Missing…

Too many women let themselves go once they are in a stable relationship. It’s great that you could be comfortable around your boyfriend, but guys do appreciate you looking good. Even though you don’t plan on seeing him, take pride in the way that you look when you go out and about. This way, if you do bump into him, he’ll be pleasantly surprised at how beautiful you look.

So now you’ve bumped into him, you look great and he says: “Wow! You look great! How have you been?”

What he means is: “Wow! You look great! Do you miss me as much as I miss you?”

Aha! Now we’re getting somewhere. But don’t let him off that easy. Remember, you still need to play the game a bit.

If you were completely honest you might say: “Well, I basically spend my days crying on the couch watching romantic comedies and missing you like crazy… How are you?”

Well, I think you can see how that would be unappealing. Besides, sitting on the couch crying is exactly what you shouldn’t be doing. You should be doing other things, getting your mind off the break up and doing things that are positive.

This is one of the main lessons I gleaned from reading the Magic of Making Up, and why I recommend that anyone going through a rough break up take the time to read through this great book. It will build your confidence and allow you to see things from a fresh perspective and get you out of your negative frame of mind. This book even gives you specific techniques that you can use to overcome panic attacks and gives detailed instructions on how to see the relationship objectively and rid yourself of “graduation goggles” that make you see the past as more wonderful than it actually was which usually only serves to make you feel worse.

Breaking the negative mindset is one of the most essential steps if you want to make your ex boyfriend want you back. Engaging in other activities will help you to do this, and will give you a boost in self worth and confidence. Remember:

CONFIDENCE IS SEXY!

Also, when he asks what you have been up to you can say: “I’ve been great! I’ve been doing…” and then you can tell him what you have been up to, which is hopefully enough to get him interested and thinking about how he had this fun, exciting woman with him all that time without even knowing it.

Remember when you first dated and there was so much you didn’t know about each other and it was kind of … mysterious? Getting to know each other was fun, and now he’ll have to get to know you again… fun!

Playing A Little Dirty Can Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back, Even More…

If you are still having a hard time getting your ex’s attention, one of the fastest ways that you can grab his notice is by having fun with your male friends.

I don’t mean that you should start dating your friends, or having flings with random men. This will just end badly no matter what.

What I mean is that you should hang out with your guy friends (you know, the ones you haven’t given much attention for a while because your boyfriend is a little jealous?) After all, who’s gonna stop you – Your boyfriend? What boyfriend?

This nudge can help your ex boyfriend’s possessive instincts come to the fore, and get him begging you to take him back.

When All Is Said And Done…

When all is said and done, it really just comes down to whether you are good for each other or not. Giving the relationship another try will give you the chance to test this and see if there might not be a long and happy future on the horizon. Even though breaking up with your boyfriend can be very discouraging, just remember that even true love needs a little help once in a while. These tips can make your ex boyfriend want you back and can make for a better relationship the second time around.