How Can I Save My Marriage If My Wife Doesn’t Love Me Anymore?
“I want to save my marriage and make things better between my wife and me, but how do I do this if my wife doesn’t love me anymore?” I can imagine that if you are asking yourself this question, you are probably very frustrated with the situation. It’s hard when you love someone so much, but you can’t seem to get them to accept your love or love you in return. No matter how hard you are willing to work on your marriage, if your wife doesn’t want it to work… it wont! So, the question is – how do you get your wife to love you again?
Getting to the Root of the Problem
Women are strange creatures – they don’t always mean what they say and you can’t always tell what’s going on by the way that they act either. As a woman, I know for a fact that it is nearly impossible to stop loving a man that you have loved for so long. If there is any sign that you are still emotionally attached to her, chances are, she still does love you too. However, while it is difficult to just stop loving a man, after many years of disappointments and being neglected, women can end up hardening their hearts to their husbands. This is very sad, and a lot of marriages end because women have very high (and often unrealistic) expectations of their husbands, and because their men can’t keep up with these demands, they just stop trying.
This “expectations versus reality” cycle that happens in marriage can lead to a struggle between husbands and wives that can eventually lead to either the husband or wife just throwing in the proverbial towel.
Well, if your wife is growing distant from you and you can see that she may be thinking about divorcing you, what can you do? Perhaps her feelings of dissatisfaction with the marriage are caused by this sort of struggle, then the solution is quite simple and even obvious when you think about it…
Who Can Help Me If My Wife Doesn’t Love Me?
As I said, the solution is simple, but how you apply the solution can be a bit tricky and it really depends on your specific situation and the relationship you have with your wife. Luckily I know someone who can help you understand how to make your wife love you again. His name is T.W. Jackson, and he’s studied the ins and outs of human relationships for years. He’s sort a relationship guru, if you will, and he’s come up with a pretty successful formula that can help even the most hopeless cases win back their partners.
What’s great about this formula is that it works regardless if you are a man trying to get your wife back, or a girl trying to get her boyfriend back. Why? – Because it’s based on the fundamental workings of human nature.
So what should you do to get your wife to love you again? Well, two things.
1. If your wife is leaving you because she feels like you have neglected her, you should remedy the situation by showing her how much she means to you. Be genuine about this. Generic gifts like chocolates and roses can patch up a booboo temporarily, but to really heal your marriage, try thinking of what you really LOVE about your wife, and let her know that you love that about her. Be creative in how you show her this. The more personalized the better.
2. If your wife doesn’t love you anymore because she is interested in another man, or she doesn’t value you very highly anymore, you can try using the controversial “No Contact” method which is outlined in T Dub’s book. This method works wonders if used properly, and can raise your value in the eyes of your wife greatly.
You can find full instructions to both methods in T Dub’s relationship book, “Magic of Making Up”. It has tons of tips and even dirty psychological tricks that you can use to make your wife desire you again, and get your marriage back to that loving and passionate state you were once in when you first got married or started dating.
So, if you have been wondering “How do I save my marriage if my wife doesn’t love me?” well, don’t wonder anymore. Try using one of these two foolproof methods and before you know it you’ll have your wife back in your arms, and you’ll be back in her heart!